Secrecy – the intimacy basher

Walls go up when secrets are kept. Have you ever known about a surprise party for a friend and reminded yourself mentally to watch what you say so you don’t blow it? You must internally restrict your natural impulses instead of being genuine. It’s difficult to be close to someone when you’re hiding something important from them. The most important question to ask yourself if a relationship outside your marriage is a threat is whether it or the level of your communication with that person is a secret.

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