Author Archives: Angela Winslow

The Cliteracy Project

Sex Education: The Missing Chapter from The Huffington Post on Vimeo.Image: Huffington Post, Cliteracy Project http://www.estherperel.com/i-am-cliterate-are-you/ This refreshing video from the Huffington Post, Cliteracy Project is a must view for men and women. Referenced on noted sex therapist Esther Perel’s … Continue reading

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You Talk About Everything—Except Your Sex Life

Sex problems in a relationship are more common than you’re thinking. You’re nestled in separate corners of the sofa at the end of another relentless day, binge-watching “Ladies of London” (which he likes more than you, but he’ll never admit … Continue reading

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When Porn Comes Between a Marriage

Recovering from a porn addiction together How fast porn can consume us. It’s like a skinny little flame finally finding its way into a big pile of drought-dry kindling. A couple months ago, you pulled up a site, so unassuming. … Continue reading

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Nurturing squashes desire

What is the difference between love and desire? Love and desire relate and conflict. Love is: When you care, worry, feel responsible for someone. You want to minimize threats, reduce the distance, and nurture them. Desire is: an expression of … Continue reading

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Is Porn an Addiction for You?

The Porn Addiction Quiz I ran across this article and quiz in the online Men’s Health magazine. http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/quiz-are-you-addicted-to-porn To avoid the ads associated with this link I copied and pasted the quiz and scoring. I found the comments in the … Continue reading

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Sexual Desire And Lack Thereof.

Stuck in a no sex relationship? Lack of sexual desire

A common complaint of couples in long term relationships is a decline in sexual desire. Many may think that men do most of the complaining, however research suggests that the stress of a long-term relationship can have a dampening effect … Continue reading

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The choice to self-soothe

How To Self-Soothe When You Are Under Stress

A young child learns fairly early how to calm down when he is upset. Hopefully parents and caregivers are available in the early years to soothe with touch and holding but gradually the child will learn ways to self soothe … Continue reading

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Wordless Connecting

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Many young couples especially those with small children struggle to maintain closeness- and no wonder! The priority is taking care of the kids as it should be. Often whoever comes home last for work is faced with a tussle of … Continue reading

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What makes couples therapy successful?

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Sometimes people ask me what my success rate is when working with couples on their marriage. Even if it were possible to answer that question, the results would reveal very little about my — or any therapist’s — skill. Whether … Continue reading

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Two Steps In The Affair Recovery Dance

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Even though I’ve worked with many couples to help them find a healing pathway after an affair, I recognize there is no foolproof measure for determining whether or not a marriage is going to “make it” in the end. There … Continue reading

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