Category Archives: Did You Know
Are Prescription Drugs The Answer?

Recently a client who had struggled for months in her attempts to reign in the anger over her husband’s affair, reported a significant change in her feelings and behavior after starting an antidepressant. She told me that she felt she now … Continue reading
Research On Divorce Effects

Sometimes individuals who are contemplating divorce come in to get perspective on whether taking this step is reasonable for themselves and their children. There is a great amount of research on divorce and children, all pointing to the same stubborn … Continue reading
The Cliteracy Project
Sex Education: The Missing Chapter from The Huffington Post on Vimeo.Image: Huffington Post, Cliteracy Project http://www.estherperel.com/i-am-cliterate-are-you/ This refreshing video from the Huffington Post, Cliteracy Project is a must view for men and women. Referenced on noted sex therapist Esther Perel’s … Continue reading
You Talk About Everything—Except Your Sex Life
Sex problems in a relationship are more common than you’re thinking. You’re nestled in separate corners of the sofa at the end of another relentless day, binge-watching “Ladies of London” (which he likes more than you, but he’ll never admit … Continue reading
When Porn Comes Between a Marriage
Recovering from a porn addiction together How fast porn can consume us. It’s like a skinny little flame finally finding its way into a big pile of drought-dry kindling. A couple months ago, you pulled up a site, so unassuming. … Continue reading
Is Porn an Addiction for You?
The Porn Addiction Quiz I ran across this article and quiz in the online Men’s Health magazine. http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/quiz-are-you-addicted-to-porn To avoid the ads associated with this link I copied and pasted the quiz and scoring. I found the comments in the … Continue reading
The choice to self-soothe

A young child learns fairly early how to calm down when he is upset. Hopefully parents and caregivers are available in the early years to soothe with touch and holding but gradually the child will learn ways to self soothe … Continue reading