Falling in love is ‘heady’ and a wonderful thing. Sex is hot, he/she is always on my mind, completes me, makes life full/real/worth living. Brain chemistry is altered in this phase. If we could only bottle it! The trite adage that ‘all good things must end’ is true in this respect. As time goes on we become more familiar with the object of our affection. We come to know their faults, idiosyncracies, in short , what drives us f****ing crazy. And at that point, after the infatuation ends a decision is made. Do I accept this person with all their bad points, or do I not? Stay tuned for Stage 2.